Playing with the kisses
Once both of you have started kissing after using the steps I’ve given in the introduction, keep it nice and slow.
Of course, you can get aggressive if she’s getting all aggressive.
But unless she’s taking the lead, build the passion up instead of the aggression.
One of the things that most guys do wrong is push the game and go too fast.
They’re so happy to be kissing a girl and getting a chance to cup her breasts, they forget to keep the passion alive.
Getting too aggressive could end your chances of touching your date’s breasts midway, and no one wants that.
When you’re making out and trying to figure out how to touch a woman’s breasts on a date, all your attention should be on her pleasure and not just on yours. So however far you go, remember to keep the focus on her.
Do that and you’ll be making out with her until the sun comes up.
Kiss her gently at first and very tentatively, use your tongue but only if she reciprocates your move. Pull back gently now and then and kiss her ears and her chin, slowly moving down towards her neck. The nape and the sides of a girl’s neck are extremely sensitive and arousing for almost all girls, unless they feel ticklish.
As tempting as it can seem, don’t go too close to her cleavage. Border your kisses around her neck and her shoulders once in a while when you’re kissing her lips. Moist kisses are great, wet kisses aren’t.
A lingering cool reminder of where you kissed her feels nice, but it’s definitely not enjoyable if it feels all watery!
Playing with her hands
When you’re making out with a girl, she’s obviously going to reciprocate your moves too. But if she’s having a really good time, she may even just sit back with her eyes closed and enjoy the experience.
If you ever feel like things are getting slow, or if both of you are getting extremely aggressive and her hands are moving a lot, you can kiss the inside of her elbows or her wrists. As surprising as it may seem, kissing the insides of her elbows can actually calm her down. At times, you don’t want the making out to seem like a one night stand or a one-time thing. Going too fast could even make her dislike it the next time because it would all have happened so suddenly.
Remember, when you’re trying to touch a woman’s breasts, it shouldn’t feel like an impulsive one night stand. It should feel real, and she should love it!
Taking it beyond the kiss
In the first part of this guide on how to make out with a girl, you would have figured out how to kiss a woman and make out with her. Here, we’re going to take it to the next level on how to touch a woman’s breasts. But remember, we’re talking about making out with a woman, not having sex, so take it easy and play it slow. No woman likes to be treated like a tramp who’s going to have sex with you a few minutes into making out.
As you kiss her passionately for a while, move your hands around her shoulders and down to the sides of her tummy, slowly and firmly. As you reach her waist, linger for a minute and slide your hand over her lower back and rest your hand.
Slip your hand under her shirt and run your hand on her bare back for a second, before moving your hand out of her tee shirt and placing it on her lower back again. Repeat it a couple of times while kissing each other, and linger a bit longer with each time.
Before you try to reach out and touch her breasts, you should make her feel comfortable with your touch and yet, not feel awkward at the same time.
Learning to guide your hands
After giving your hands some exercise on her lower back, bring your hands back to the sides of her waist.
As you kiss her, place one palm gently on her tummy, and feel your way around it. Don’t move your hands over her breasts just yet. Instead, place one hand back on her lower back and bring the other hand on her collar bone, just under her neck. She has to feel comfortable with your touch across her body. By hurrying this up, you’d just end up making her feel uncomfortable and used.
Resting one hand on her lower back, softly slide the hand you’ve placed on her collar bone down over her breasts, and bring it to rest under her breast, without really touching her breast for more than a second.
Hands in the shirt
Now remember, you’re doing all of this as you kiss her passionately. This should be natural. If you find yourself getting distracted, don’t overdo it and try to hurry the pace. Take your time, even if you need a whole hour to get to this part!
You can’t make mistakes here. You don’t get second chances when you’re trying to touch a woman’s breasts, so it’s better to linger than to speed up.
With one hand on her lower back, bring down the other hand from under her breast and place it on her belly near her midriff. A few minutes of kissing later, slip your hands under her tee shirt and place it over her belly. Don’t speed this up, or it’s all over. Bend down and kiss her neck and collar bone. And at the same time, move your hand smoothly and rather quickly higher up inside her shirt. Move your hands up until you touch her breast over her bra.
The hand where it matters
The second your hand touches her bra, bring your hand back to under her breast. She knows you’ve touched her breast and so do you. But you’re being gentlemanly enough to bring it back down because you felt “it was all too soon”. You’ve got to give her enough time to feel comfortable with the breast touch. It is a big deal, after all. You can’t linger on her breasts on the very first touch. Just like a first kiss, you have to warm her up to it.
Don’t take your hand out of her tee shirt, and don’t move it over her breast either. Let her feel comfortable with your hand under her breast. The very second you touched her breast for the first time, she knows where this is going and so do you. So there’s really no need to hurry.
After a few minutes of kissing and hand moving, gently move your hand over her bra. This time, place your hand over it and don’t remove it. Don’t move your hand or try to snoop around. Just place your hands on her breast and continue kissing her.
Taking the plunge
If you’ve followed these steps perfectly, she’d understand where your hand wants to go and what you have in mind each time. And by simply placing your hand over her breast, you’re mentally preparing her for what you intend to do next. By doing this, you’re not surprising her and that would only make her feel more comfortable with your hands over her body.
A minute or so after placing your hand over her bra, move your hand an inch or so upwards. Now you’re actually feeling up her breasts slowly, and you’re giving her the time to feel comfortable with it.
Move your hand around gently over her breasts and when both of you feel comfortable enough, move your hand upward to her bra strap and slip it down her shoulder. Don’t hurry any of these steps. Once you’ve slipped her bra strap off her shoulder, move your hand down gently. But this time, as your hands come down, don’t move your hand over the bra. Instead, slip your hand under the bra.
Place your hand over her breast gently and don’t do anything just yet. Remember, it’s about making her feel comfortable and like your touch. You really should never initiate a move she won’t like.
And there you have it, the perfect way to touch a woman’s breasts the very first time you kiss her, the Super Fella way! If you repeat these steps exactly as I”˜ve mentioned here, I assure you any girl is going to have a hard time resisting your charm and your super sexy hands when it runs all over her body.