MEN. 6 signs you’re good in bed… for men

Nothing feels better than when a man is good in bed and can satisfy his lady with minimum fuss.
When you’re good in bed it simply means you can satisfy your partner, you are aware of your partner’s needs and are sensitive to the way she feels and what she craves for; it doesn’t end there, after knowing what she needs, you also know how to make her feel better and want you the more.
That’s the man in charge and I call him the Undertaker.
I’m not sure every man fits to be called an undertaker to be honest; read on as I show you six signs that you really are the boss in bed.

1. SHE REMEMBERS EVERY MOMENT
One thing about moments is that the brain only remembers moments that are worth remembering, either good or bad; that’s why what hurts you the most and what pleases you the most are moments you would never forget. In other words, if you can create special memories that she just won’t forget then you are really super when in the sheets.

2. HER REACTION AFTER EACH LOVE MAKING
This is the perfect way to know if you normally satisfy your lady or you just wasting time and energy. A lady’s response after sex is the perfect litmus test; if she warms up to you immediately then she loved it, if she keeps a blank face then she didn’t enjoy it but she just can’t tell you, if she complains then you totally suck. Which category do you belong?

3. SHE WOULD TELL YOU
If your lady hasn’t told you “honey you are totally good in bed” then you aren’t. Ladies are the best judge when it comes to which man is good and which isn’t; if you make her feel great time after time, she would tell you; if you can blow her brains out, she would love you for it and won’t let go; even the most conservative of ladies would open up to a man that can make her go wild.

4. YOU ARE NEVER IN A HURRY
A man who knows what he’s doing is never in a hurry, he knows that to please a lady and make her reach orgasm, he has to take heed to other things rather than just jump straight to having sex. In other words, you take the foreplay serious, you notice what your lady craves for, you still are romantic even when the act is going and further more. When a man has all this, it means he’s in control of the situation and would make his lady go gaga.

5. HER REACTION DURING SEX
Reaction says it all really; her reaction after sex is important and her relationship during the act is as well important. Does she just sit back, complain and give directions on so many things you aren’t doing well or does she moan and ask for more? These are two different things you should observe; the reaction your lady normally gives is the perfect judge to testing your abilities and if she goes with the latter most times then you are really the boss.

6. YOUR REACTION
This is one part most men forget, sex and love making isn’t just about you satisfying yourself, it goes beyond that. How do you treat your lady when making love? Do you take love making as an act that would satisfy you or your lady? Do you make her smile and have fun while it’s on? Do you make her feel good about her body? Do you appreciate her? These so called things would make your lady value you the more and enjoy every bit of love making with you. With these, she would love you the more and you would as well satisfy her needs; so it’s a win-win situation.

So the big answer to if you really are good in bed as you claim lies up to you; if you are positive to most of the tips mentioned here then you surely do have a lady that’s truly satisfied, and if you aren’t then you should wake up; your lady deserves to feel good too.

6 lies every lady must have told

Lies are not uncommon as far as relationships are concerned. There are some simple lies almost every lady must have told at a point in time; probably to a man she’s dating or to a man that’s asking her out.
You would hardly see a lady that hasn’t told a lie while growing up or even till present. Some are simple white lies while others are not too simple.
This promises to be fun; read on as the ladies little lies get exposed.

1. I’M ON MY PERIOD 

I don’t think there isn’t a lady that hasn’t told this lie; using period as a reason not to have sex is common among ladies. It could be because she isn’t probably in the mood or she’s angry with her man or maybe because she suspects the guy just wants to take advantage of her; there are so many scenarios where this happens but almost every lady most have told this lie.

2. I’D BE READY IN A MINUTE
That one minute might lead to an hour. This is one white lie every lady tells; we know you want to look good, we know you need to have your makeup spot on, we know it isn’t something that you can rush up within seconds, but come on; it’s quite frustrating when we have to go through this time after time.

3. I DON’T HAVE A PHONE
I think every lady must have told this lie at a point in time. There was a period when this lie was the quickest lie every lady had to tell to a guy she really doesn’t like; it’s not as common as it used to be but every lady must have told this lie at one point in time.
4. I’M NOT ANGRY
This is also another lie that holds sway to this day. You can feel the anger boiling through her, you can see the expression on her face, yet she tells you that she isn’t angry. This is one lie that would forever remain.
5. I. DIDN’T HEAR MY PHONE RING
When a lady is getting tired of her man or when she’s avoiding a guy she doesn’t like, this is one lie and one action she takes to frustrate him. Most times, she heard those calls but probably didn’t want to pick; sometimes it could be genuine though, but I wouldn’t always bet on that.
6. I’M NOT READY FOR A MAN YET
This is one subtle way of telling you, I don’t want to date you. She might come up with flimsy excuses like she doesn’t need men trouble right now or she just needs a break but those are just words she uses to soften the effect of her telling you “I don’t want you Mr”. If a lady is single and she wants you, she would always take that chance of being with you – no matter what.

So fellas, there you have it; I’m pretty sure every guy must have been told this lie and every lady must have told at least four of these lies.
I hope you had fun reading this and hope you found it interesting; have a great day.

6 ways How to Touch a Woman’s Breasts while kissing her

Playing with the kisses

Once both of you have started kissing after using the steps I’ve given in the introduction, keep it nice and slow.

Of course, you can get aggressive if she’s getting all aggressive.

But unless she’s taking the lead, build the passion up instead of the aggression.

One of the things that most guys do wrong is push the game and go too fast.

They’re so happy to be kissing a girl and getting a chance to cup her breasts, they forget to keep the passion alive.

Getting too aggressive could end your chances of touching your date’s breasts midway, and no one wants that.

When you’re making out and trying to figure out how to touch a woman’s breasts on a date, all your attention should be on her pleasure and not just on yours. So however far you go, remember to keep the focus on her.

Do that and you’ll be making out with her until the sun comes up.

Kiss her gently at first and very tentatively, use your tongue but only if she reciprocates your move. Pull back gently now and then and kiss her ears and her chin, slowly moving down towards her neck. The nape and the sides of a girl’s neck are extremely sensitive and arousing for almost all girls, unless they feel ticklish.

As tempting as it can seem, don’t go too close to her cleavage. Border your kisses around her neck and her shoulders once in a while when you’re kissing her lips. Moist kisses are great, wet kisses aren’t.

A lingering cool reminder of where you kissed her feels nice, but it’s definitely not enjoyable if it feels all watery!

Playing with her hands

When you’re making out with a girl, she’s obviously going to reciprocate your moves too. But if she’s having a really good time, she may even just sit back with her eyes closed and enjoy the experience.

If you ever feel like things are getting slow, or if both of you are getting extremely aggressive and her hands are moving a lot, you can kiss the inside of her elbows or her wrists. As surprising as it may seem, kissing the insides of her elbows can actually calm her down. At times, you don’t want the making out to seem like a one night stand or a one-time thing. Going too fast could even make her dislike it the next time because it would all have happened so suddenly.

Remember, when you’re trying to touch a woman’s breasts, it shouldn’t feel like an impulsive one night stand. It should feel real, and she should love it!

Taking it beyond the kiss

In the first part of this guide on how to make out with a girl, you would have figured out how to kiss a woman and make out with her. Here, we’re going to take it to the next level on how to touch a woman’s breasts. But remember, we’re talking about making out with a woman, not having sex, so take it easy and play it slow. No woman likes to be treated like a tramp who’s going to have sex with you a few minutes into making out.

As you kiss her passionately for a while, move your hands around her shoulders and down to the sides of her tummy, slowly and firmly. As you reach her waist, linger for a minute and slide your hand over her lower back and rest your hand.

Slip your hand under her shirt and run your hand on her bare back for a second, before moving your hand out of her tee shirt and placing it on her lower back again. Repeat it a couple of times while kissing each other, and linger a bit longer with each time.

Before you try to reach out and touch her breasts, you should make her feel comfortable with your touch and yet, not feel awkward at the same time.

Learning to guide your hands

After giving your hands some exercise on her lower back, bring your hands back to the sides of her waist.

As you kiss her, place one palm gently on her tummy, and feel your way around it. Don’t move your hands over her breasts just yet. Instead, place one hand back on her lower back and bring the other hand on her collar bone, just under her neck. She has to feel comfortable with your touch across her body. By hurrying this up, you’d just end up making her feel uncomfortable and used.

Resting one hand on her lower back, softly slide the hand you’ve placed on her collar bone down over her breasts, and bring it to rest under her breast, without really touching her breast for more than a second.

Hands in the shirt

Now remember, you’re doing all of this as you kiss her passionately. This should be natural. If you find yourself getting distracted, don’t overdo it and try to hurry the pace. Take your time, even if you need a whole hour to get to this part!

You can’t make mistakes here. You don’t get second chances when you’re trying to touch a woman’s breasts, so it’s better to linger than to speed up.

With one hand on her lower back, bring down the other hand from under her breast and place it on her belly near her midriff. A few minutes of kissing later, slip your hands under her tee shirt and place it over her belly. Don’t speed this up, or it’s all over. Bend down and kiss her neck and collar bone. And at the same time, move your hand smoothly and rather quickly higher up inside her shirt. Move your hands up until you touch her breast over her bra.

The hand where it matters

The second your hand touches her bra, bring your hand back to under her breast. She knows you’ve touched her breast and so do you. But you’re being gentlemanly enough to bring it back down because you felt “it was all too soon”. You’ve got to give her enough time to feel comfortable with the breast touch. It is a big deal, after all. You can’t linger on her breasts on the very first touch. Just like a first kiss, you have to warm her up to it.

Don’t take your hand out of her tee shirt, and don’t move it over her breast either. Let her feel comfortable with your hand under her breast. The very second you touched her breast for the first time, she knows where this is going and so do you. So there’s really no need to hurry.

After a few minutes of kissing and hand moving, gently move your hand over her bra. This time, place your hand over it and don’t remove it. Don’t move your hand or try to snoop around. Just place your hands on her breast and continue kissing her.

Taking the plunge

If you’ve followed these steps perfectly, she’d understand where your hand wants to go and what you have in mind each time. And by simply placing your hand over her breast, you’re mentally preparing her for what you intend to do next. By doing this, you’re not surprising her and that would only make her feel more comfortable with your hands over her body.

A minute or so after placing your hand over her bra, move your hand an inch or so upwards. Now you’re actually feeling up her breasts slowly, and you’re giving her the time to feel comfortable with it.

Move your hand around gently over her breasts and when both of you feel comfortable enough, move your hand upward to her bra strap and slip it down her shoulder. Don’t hurry any of these steps. Once you’ve slipped her bra strap off her shoulder, move your hand down gently. But this time, as your hands come down, don’t move your hand over the bra. Instead, slip your hand under the bra.

Place your hand over her breast gently and don’t do anything just yet. Remember, it’s about making her feel comfortable and like your touch. You really should never initiate a move she won’t like.

And there you have it, the perfect way to touch a woman’s breasts the very first time you kiss her, the Super Fella way! If you repeat these steps exactly as I”˜ve mentioned here, I assure you any girl is going to have a hard time resisting your charm and your super sexy hands when it runs all over her body.

5 ways valentine’s day proves you are his side chick

Valentine’s day is a day set aside to celebrate love and it is also a day that so many ladies get to know the ugly truth – they are his side chick. There is nothing that hurts more than knowing you are his side chick on valentine’s day after all the efforts you have put into the relationship to make it work.

While some ladies realise quickly they are the side chick, others never know and they end up getting played on valentine’s day without actually knowing it.
Below are 5 ways valentine’s day proves you are his side chick

1. He celebrates valentine’s day with you on the 13^th or 15^th
He is definitely going to spend 14^th of february with the woman that matters most to him so if he plans celebrating valentine’s day with you on the 13^th or 15^th, then you might just be his side chick.

2. He feels sick on valentine’s day:
This is a classic move used by most guys when they have to be with the main chick on valentine’s day or they don’t plan spending it with any of the girls so they doesn’t get caught. If you man suddenly falls sick on valentine’s day or a day before, then it’s obvious he plans spending it with his main chick or don’t want to spend it with any of his girls so he doesn’t get caught.

3. He takes you out to lunch on valentine’s day and not dinner:
He plans taking his main chick out on a dinner so if he is taking you out to lunch on valentine’s day, you could just be his side chick. He is taking you out to lunch to trick you into believing you are his main chick so you don’t get to feel he has someone else; he would definitely be having dinner with his main chick later that night.

4. His phone goes off after 8pm on valentine’s day:

So you try reaching him on valentine’s day and he isn’t reachable, he is probably having dinner with his main chick on valentine’s day. He would definitely call and text you for most parts of the day to make you feel like you are the only one but his phone suddenly goes off after 8pm. He would definitely call or text the following morning to tell you his battery went dead or he had a poor network.

5. He wants to celebrate valentine’s day by hanging out with his family or friends:

It’s a day meant for lovers and not a time for family reunion so if he plans spending valentine’s day with his friends or family, he could have other women in his life apart from you so he decides not to spend the day with any of the women in his life and spends it instead with his friends or family.