MEN. 6 signs you’re good in bed… for men

Nothing feels better than when a man is good in bed and can satisfy his lady with minimum fuss.
When you’re good in bed it simply means you can satisfy your partner, you are aware of your partner’s needs and are sensitive to the way she feels and what she craves for; it doesn’t end there, after knowing what she needs, you also know how to make her feel better and want you the more.
That’s the man in charge and I call him the Undertaker.
I’m not sure every man fits to be called an undertaker to be honest; read on as I show you six signs that you really are the boss in bed.

1. SHE REMEMBERS EVERY MOMENT
One thing about moments is that the brain only remembers moments that are worth remembering, either good or bad; that’s why what hurts you the most and what pleases you the most are moments you would never forget. In other words, if you can create special memories that she just won’t forget then you are really super when in the sheets.

2. HER REACTION AFTER EACH LOVE MAKING
This is the perfect way to know if you normally satisfy your lady or you just wasting time and energy. A lady’s response after sex is the perfect litmus test; if she warms up to you immediately then she loved it, if she keeps a blank face then she didn’t enjoy it but she just can’t tell you, if she complains then you totally suck. Which category do you belong?

3. SHE WOULD TELL YOU
If your lady hasn’t told you “honey you are totally good in bed” then you aren’t. Ladies are the best judge when it comes to which man is good and which isn’t; if you make her feel great time after time, she would tell you; if you can blow her brains out, she would love you for it and won’t let go; even the most conservative of ladies would open up to a man that can make her go wild.

4. YOU ARE NEVER IN A HURRY
A man who knows what he’s doing is never in a hurry, he knows that to please a lady and make her reach orgasm, he has to take heed to other things rather than just jump straight to having sex. In other words, you take the foreplay serious, you notice what your lady craves for, you still are romantic even when the act is going and further more. When a man has all this, it means he’s in control of the situation and would make his lady go gaga.

5. HER REACTION DURING SEX
Reaction says it all really; her reaction after sex is important and her relationship during the act is as well important. Does she just sit back, complain and give directions on so many things you aren’t doing well or does she moan and ask for more? These are two different things you should observe; the reaction your lady normally gives is the perfect judge to testing your abilities and if she goes with the latter most times then you are really the boss.

6. YOUR REACTION
This is one part most men forget, sex and love making isn’t just about you satisfying yourself, it goes beyond that. How do you treat your lady when making love? Do you take love making as an act that would satisfy you or your lady? Do you make her smile and have fun while it’s on? Do you make her feel good about her body? Do you appreciate her? These so called things would make your lady value you the more and enjoy every bit of love making with you. With these, she would love you the more and you would as well satisfy her needs; so it’s a win-win situation.

So the big answer to if you really are good in bed as you claim lies up to you; if you are positive to most of the tips mentioned here then you surely do have a lady that’s truly satisfied, and if you aren’t then you should wake up; your lady deserves to feel good too.

8 secrets about the male erection revealed.

Knowing these facts is important both for men and for ladies. They can help you to stay healthy and get more pleasure while making love.
Secrets you did not know about the erection:

 
1. Alcohol makes it weaker
Some people mistakenly think that drinking is the essential part of romance and courting and it can boost the erection. That’s not true. A glass of wine won’t hurt, but anything more can kill the erection. Alcohol widens veins and arteries. The arteries supply the blood to the penis and that’s good, but at the same time, the veins need to tighten up to keep the blood in the manhood. But they get wider too. So, the blood comes and goes, and the man loses firmness in his vital organ.

2. Types of erection
You thought there was just one, right? Well, men are full of surprises. They have the morning wood or something called a nocturnal erection. It happens involuntarily at night or in the morning. The other kind is known as the psychogenic erection, and it is evoked by lustful thoughts or fantasies. And there is the good old one evoked by touches.

3. You can make him bigger and firmer
How do you do that? Well, use your mouth instead of the hand or other body parts. The difference in size can be significant!

4. The banana shape
Some men have bent penises. They much resemble the banana shape when erected.

5. Make him stop
If the guy masturbates regularly, his manhood becomes weaker and smaller, when erected. So, if you wish to get the real thing, make him stop!

6. Condoms are not the best friends
Some men are unable to attain a healthy erection using condoms. They are not faking it.

7. Fat men don’t do good in bed
Being overweight lowers the level of male hormones in the body, and the erection becomes less firm.

8. He is not in control
Over 30 percent of men are unhappy about how long they can last. The erection may be too short for him to satisfy the woman.

6 lies every lady must have told

Lies are not uncommon as far as relationships are concerned. There are some simple lies almost every lady must have told at a point in time; probably to a man she’s dating or to a man that’s asking her out.
You would hardly see a lady that hasn’t told a lie while growing up or even till present. Some are simple white lies while others are not too simple.
This promises to be fun; read on as the ladies little lies get exposed.

1. I’M ON MY PERIOD 

I don’t think there isn’t a lady that hasn’t told this lie; using period as a reason not to have sex is common among ladies. It could be because she isn’t probably in the mood or she’s angry with her man or maybe because she suspects the guy just wants to take advantage of her; there are so many scenarios where this happens but almost every lady most have told this lie.

2. I’D BE READY IN A MINUTE
That one minute might lead to an hour. This is one white lie every lady tells; we know you want to look good, we know you need to have your makeup spot on, we know it isn’t something that you can rush up within seconds, but come on; it’s quite frustrating when we have to go through this time after time.

3. I DON’T HAVE A PHONE
I think every lady must have told this lie at a point in time. There was a period when this lie was the quickest lie every lady had to tell to a guy she really doesn’t like; it’s not as common as it used to be but every lady must have told this lie at one point in time.
4. I’M NOT ANGRY
This is also another lie that holds sway to this day. You can feel the anger boiling through her, you can see the expression on her face, yet she tells you that she isn’t angry. This is one lie that would forever remain.
5. I. DIDN’T HEAR MY PHONE RING
When a lady is getting tired of her man or when she’s avoiding a guy she doesn’t like, this is one lie and one action she takes to frustrate him. Most times, she heard those calls but probably didn’t want to pick; sometimes it could be genuine though, but I wouldn’t always bet on that.
6. I’M NOT READY FOR A MAN YET
This is one subtle way of telling you, I don’t want to date you. She might come up with flimsy excuses like she doesn’t need men trouble right now or she just needs a break but those are just words she uses to soften the effect of her telling you “I don’t want you Mr”. If a lady is single and she wants you, she would always take that chance of being with you – no matter what.

So fellas, there you have it; I’m pretty sure every guy must have been told this lie and every lady must have told at least four of these lies.
I hope you had fun reading this and hope you found it interesting; have a great day.

8 mistakes every lady wants her man to stop making

You would hardly see a relationship that exists without mistakes; mistakes are bound to happen since no one is perfect. However, when some mistakes keep happening repeatedly it becomes annoying; if mistakes that should be easily avoided keep happening it can make one frustrated.

Every man in a relationship should be sensitive enough to know that some mistakes are way too costly and shouldn’t exist in the relationship else they would end up losing so many good women that care about them.

The following mistakes are mistakes most ladies out there would want her man to stop making; they should never exist in the relationship.

1. COMPLACENCY

This is one annoying mistake men make that should never be made. After all the care and attention a man gives to a lady when he’s trying to woo her, the moment he gets her, his approach changes; he begins to take so many things for granted forgetting that the same way he worked hard to get the lady should be the same way he should work hard to keep her; this is a frequent mistake so many men make and ladies are actually tired of being taken for granted.
2. NOT LISTENING TO HIS LADY
Complacency is one thing and not being listened to is another; a relationship exists between two people, no one forms a relationship with just himself. Being in a relationship with a lady means you ought to listen to her inasmuch as she has to listen to you. For understanding to exist in a relationship, both partners should be given a listening ear; so many ladies out there would complain of the fact that they are being sidelined by men and this is yet another mistake men make that women are tired of.
3. OVER-DOMINEERING
We are not in the 16th century anymore; inasmuch as I strongly believe a man is the head of a family, being over domineering wouldn’t help the relationship at all. No lady wants to be in a relationship that can be compared to a military training and that is exactly what some relationship look like. Most men would want their will and their will alone to stand in a relationship, but such acts only show selfishness and insensitivity on the part of the man.
4. DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
Inasmuch as this doesn’t exist in every relationship, it is still a regular occurrence in countless relationships out there. So many women are being abused on a regular basis and don’t know how to leave the relationship. Most men would claim it was a mistake and they couldn’t control their anger, but to call a spade a spade, this is one mistake that shouldn’t even be made in the first place. 
5. UNFAITHFULNESS
Dating a man is one thing and dating a man that can be faithful is another. You would hardly see a man that can keep to a promise of being faithful. Most women are tired of moving from one relationship with a cheating man to another relationship with a cheating man; cheating should never exist in a relationship and it’s one stupid mistake women are tired of and would appreciate if men stop making; the recent trend among male celebrities is cheating on their partner and this has led to so many failed celebrity relationships.
6. INCONSISTENCY IN SHOWING CARE
Most men would show care to their lady today and feel it ought to last till the next week. Women have short memories when it comes to this; roses and candy might show her you love her today but tomorrow is also another day to show to that woman that she’s special to you. Men make that mistake of resting on their oars when it comes to showing care to their lady and that’s a very big mistake to make; every day is just another day to show care.
7. PLACING SOMETHING OR SOMEONE ABOVE YOUR LADY 
What’s the need being in a relationship where you would be treated like second class material? Most women complain of being in a relationship where their man places so many things above them, including irrelevant things. For a lady to be in a relationship and not be a priority can be heart-breaking and this is another mistake no woman wants her man to make; a woman should always be a priority to her man.
8. FORGETTING HER BIRTHDAY AND OTHER IMPORTANT DATES
You may think that this is unnecessary but not in the world of a woman; every man should know that women are highly emotional and certain things which you may deem as unimportant are actually highly important to her. Anniversaries mark an important moment in the life of a woman and she feels it should matter to her man to; marriage anniversary for example is one thing women don’t take lightly; to a lady, forgetting dates like that means you take important things for granted. This is one grave mistake women would prefer their man don’t make.

Relationship is a serious work; you work to get it started and you work to keep it going strong. Certain mistakes show negligence and women are tired of negligence.
If most men out there can read this piece and take it to heart then putting a smile on the face of your lady would be such an easy task.
In the words of Shawn “the world would be a better place if we had better relationships”.

5 good reasons women fake orgasm

Fake orgasms are the bane of men’s existence, it’s very demoralizing especially when she isn’t very good at faking it and you catch on to it, and you’re there watching her act orgasm horribly. While it isn’t entirely the lady’s fault, it also isn’t the guy’s fault.

According to Psychology Today, only about a quarter of women achieve orgasm during sexual intercourse, regardless of the length or width of the tool.
Taking things to another notch higher, about 20 per cent seldom have or ever had orgasm during sex. 5 per cent have never had orgasm. So, your work has been cut out for you, it’s all not very encouraging at all.
Joy Stokes of Xonecole explores the reasons why women fake orgasm.

1. To make you happy

Weirdly, she is still trying to prioritize your happiness over hers, she just wants to boost your ego. For better men who care about the female orgasm, people who don’t want to be selfish, they will put the lady’s joy over theirs. She’s done this for you, so your ass can feel like a man!

2. The sex is becoming too long

Being able to last long sometimes is a bad thing, and if she is busy and you’re taking too long feeling like the nigga, she might just have to throw in a fake orgasm so she can move on with the rest of her life.

The night was really good, and you both had too much to drink and it’s now a problem for anyone to cum, so the lady takes the fall. Fake an orgasm, and go to lala land and be done with the night’s experience.

3. You were both drunk

The night was really good, and you both had too much to drink and it’s now a problem for anyone to cum, so the lady takes the fall. Fake an orgasm, and go to lala land and be done with the night’s experience.

 



4. The sex is painful

You have to admit this is a valid reason for faking orgasm, I also think you should stop immediately once it becomes uncomfortable. So, for you to remain happy, orgasm remains faked so things can go on. 

5. She wants somethingThat is probably the most devious reason for faking an orgasm, but hey! It works, superbly well too. Making you happy before tabling a request is a sure bet of getting what we want, making you falsely believe you’re the man.